As it turns out, men are pretty much hard-wired to like watching -- or reading about -- other people having sex. Our eyes, gestures, and tone bring us together in a more profound way than words alone. men, charles says, stating what i think to be one of the most obvious and in some ways sad facts about the male condition, are more likelyand more ablethan women to use sex for simple. why do married men watch porn? March 19, 2012 by she said he said 349 comments a woman wants to know why her husband wakes up early to masturbate to pornography. a recent survey found that 55 of married men say they look at porn at least once a month, and over a quarter admitted to looking at it several times a week. Men, women, and understanding pornography judging from the multitude of responses we have gotten from my essay about internet pornography, pornography is an issue that plagues many relationships. Most of the comments weve received are from women who feel devalued and disrespected by the fact that their husbands, boyfriends and fiancées look. No not all men look at porn! Despite what the magazines and tv shows would have you believe, there are a lot of happy marriages out there without pornography. The idea that all men look at pornography or are lying is totally false! Chivalry is not dead. Men who are standing against pornography and totally devoted to their wives do still exist. mens porn use is linked to relationship dissatisfaction and self-esteem struggles in their partners, though not all women object to pornography. In my eyes, i am his wife and the only one he should look at sexually. I do t think he would ever cheat but him and his married friends all act like this and i think its disgusting.